QUESTIONS & ANSWERS More Questions Answered. Q. Rainbow, Have you ever thought you might be holding Spectrum back spiritually? A. Yes I have. I have also asked him many times if I was and he has given me a definate "No". He has told me that I am not holding him back. He has also said that if he wanted to, he could leave me and move on any time he wants, but he doesn`t want to, he will remain with me until we can be together and we will then move on together. I cannot and would not force him to stay with me. If he wished to leave, although it would devastate me to do so, I love him enough to let him go. But he doesn`t want to and I am happy knowing he is prepared to wait and happy to do so. He is a free spirit and is doing just as he wishes, I would never want anything else for him, he knows this. When he and I were communicating regularly but I hadn`t yet discovered our true spiritual path, he steered me into meeting someone and told me via a medium he wanted us to be together because he wanted me to be happy. I wrongly thought that meant he wanted to move on, so I thanked him and wished him well. Although we knew even then that we are soulmates, I didn`t want to stand in his way and felt he was ready to go until we meet again. I was upset of course, but only want what`s best for Spectrum, and what he would want for himself. I stopped communicating and tried to get on without him. I missed him terribly yet I always felt that he was still around, if only I was able to "tune in" like I can now!. Several years passed when suddenly the "urge" to move to Wales returned, only much stronger. Eventually we moved here and almost immediately I was receiving signs, visions and dreams from and of him, I started to "feel" him around, "hear" his voice, and recognised the wonderful warm loving spiritual energy that surrounded me, as him. I began to look into developing my own psychic gifts, started training, and he came forward immediately. I told him I thought he had moved on and he told me I was mistaken, he would never leave me, we are eternal and belong together and that is what he is waiting for, however long it takes. He told me he had missed me and had been trying to get through to me for a long time. I apologised and he said he is going to remain with me as my guide for the rest of my life. We then made a solemn promise to each other never to lose touch again, no matter what- and we will keep that promise! I must add here that just because Spectrum is with me in spirit as Johnny (his incarnation in this lifetime), it doesn`t mean he is "Grounded" or "Earth Bound". He is a free spirit safely and happily settled into the spirit world. He walks by my side as my soulmate and guide, is my spiritual partner and companion, but he is not trapped here with me, he is able to come and go between worlds. He is still doing what he wants and loves to do in the spirit world (Boxing, and winning!) as well as being here with/for me and his family- who he wants to point out he loves very much. UPDATE To add to this... recently we have been "Tested" to see if our love for and loyalty to each other is strong enough to withstand outside pressures. A "scout" was sent to interfere and try to break our bond, but he was unsuccessful. He pretended to be Johnny and told me he no longer loves me and a lot of things I wouldn`t want to hear from him. Deep down inside I knew it wasn`t him, but he persevered with trying to sow seeds of doubt into my mind. When Johnny was finally able to come through to me I made him understand that I needed certain answers, and I needed to say something to him that he might or might not like, but there was no other way. I proceeded to tell him that I would rather be unhappy without him, than have him being unhappy with me, and asked him if he still loves me or not, to which he answered "Yes". I then asked him if he still wants to spend eternity with me and he said "Yes". Again I asked him if he wants to move on and he said "No". I asked him if he had been aware of recent communication and he said "Yes", so I told him I didn`t believe it was, but was it him? and he said "No". I asked if he heard what I had said and he said "Yes", so I repeated it and said to him I must give him a choice, does he want to stay or go? to which he replied "Stay". I told him that I wouldn`t stand in his way, if he is certain he wants to stay I would be very happy, but if he really wanted to leave I love him enough to stand aside and let him. I told him that as we are soulmates we will eventually meet again and one day we will finally be together, but I only want this when he is ready, if he feels he needs more time he should tell me now. When we are finally reunited it will then be too late to change his mind, so if this is what he wants he should say so, and we can agree to part until we meet again. Likewise if he really wants to stay I need to know for sure, so I asked him again, "stay or go?", again he said "Stay".  I asked if he knew why I had to ask and he said "Yes", then I asked what had it all been about? and he said "Test". I asked him to explain and he said "It was a scout." I said "What was the test for?" and he said "Testing us". I asked "In what way?" and he said "Is our love true, is our bond unbreakable". I said "And?" to which he replied "We passed". I said "You mean it was to see if I love you enough to let you go if you wanted?", and he said "Yes, and if I love you enough to stay!". He also reminded me that it was him who contacted me from his side of life, not the other way around, and that he could leave at any time if he wanted, but he doesn`t want to! I`m sorry my reply got so long but as you can see it`s a very important matter to me. I am not holding him back, I would never stand in his way, but I know he will never leave me. I have given him plenty of opportunity but he has made it quite clear he has no intention of moving on without me, and that makes me so proud and happy :-) But we would both like to thank you for your concern, we appreciate it. Q. How would you describe the soulmate/spiritual bond you two have? A. Well, I was sitting here at the computer trying to find the right words to answer your question. I must admit I wanted the perfect description for the perfect bond, but really the only thing I could come up with was just that, "Perfection". I was about to leave it a while to think about it before I reply, but then Spectrum gave me the answer, so I will tell you what he said... "We have psychic broadband ... always connected!" I couldn`t have put it better myself, in fact I like this answer so much I`m thinking of using it as our motto, and will be using it on other pages :-) I know exactly what he means by this, we are always connected in mind and spirit, lifetime after lifetime, eternally!. We often accidentally connect to each other without trying. It`s not always convenient, but we like to keep a small "window" open for only each other in case of an emergency, everything else gets "turned off" until required. That shows how up to date he is, more so than me- I don`t even have broadband on the computer yet, lol! More recently Johnny has come up with something else I like to use as a motto... " We are like spiritual siamese twins ... joined at the soul!".  Yep!!! :-) Q. What is the funniest thing you two have ever heard or read, and why? A. (Spectrum) Oh Man!!!... Aparently I go to see **** (final earth opponent) in spirit, that`s news to me!!! A. (Rainbow) I heard a certain ex "boxer" on TV once say "No-one has ever come back from defeat as often as I have"! Lol, I`m sorry but I couldn`t resist thinking that maybe that`s because no-one ever got defeated as often as he did, lol, hahahahaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!!! Q. Rainbow, Do you say a prayer or ask for protection before using the Ouija Board? and is there a cleansing process involved with using a Ouija Board? A. I have used Ouija for around 40 years without problems, probably because I only ever use it to contact loved ones like family and Johnny. I always ground myself beforehand, say an opening prayer and ask only for Johnny and my guardian angel Toyta (pronounced Toe-e-ta) to be present. I light a white candle and visualise it`s pure white lightforce enveloping all of us and keeping us safe (the three of us work together spiritually). I also ask Toyta to protect Johnny, myself and my family and home during communication. I never place my finger upon the glass until Johnny lets me know he is ready, I will hear him speak or feel his gentle touch, or if he is feeling playful he ruffles my hair or animates the candle flame!. When I finish I say a closing prayer and thank them both for coming and only then blow out the candle. I don`t actually have to do any cleansing but it couldn`t do any harm. I might use smudging sticks around the room sometimes but that`s about it.  Q.  I have heard that soulmates never incarnate with us, only kindred spirits. Do you know that to be true? A. I don`t know where you heard soulmates don`t incarnate with us but I have heard other people who think so. I must tell you it`s not true. Johnny and I have shared many lifetimes together and we know we would have done so in this life too had he not died very young 26 years ago. We had "met" a few times, both knew there was more to our feelings for each other, although we didn`t quite know or understand fully at the time, but didn`t have the chance to get to know each other properly. When he died it left a huge void in my life and I knew even more so that he was more to me than a few chance encounters. Then he came to me on the Ouija when communicating with my grandfather, and he told me everything he had remembered and had found out about us. Everything he said made perfect sense, and all the past lives and times in spirit together which he told me about in detail, I knew was real. And as he was telling me, visions of being there came to me and I knew he was showing me "us" together and that we had indeed been together many times. We are soulmates and nothing, even death, can seperate us!. I know several happy soulmate couples as well as a few who are like Johnny and me, one in spirit and one in physical... the soulmate in spirit taking the role of head guide for the one in physical, as with us. Q.How do you know if someone is really your soulmate? I have been involved with someone off & on for a lot of years, I think he is my soulmate, but how can I be sure ?. A. Soulmates will always recognise each other when they meet. It is difficult to explain, but you just KNOW. If there is any doubt or unease then they are NOT your soulmate, they could be one of your "soul family" (kindred spirit)- but soulmates never ever have any doubts, and it`s the same for both of them, the feeling is impossible to ignore or explain away as anything but soulmate connection. It is okay to be "on and off" with your soulmate... it can happen that for some reason or another you are unable to be together properly or permanently... eventually you will be together either in life or afterwards, but if you are soulmates you will know it without a doubt. If you are soulmates then your on-off relationship had been agreed by you both before this life, for some reason only you will know and will be for lessons to be learned this time around. You may have heard the phrase "Can`t live with him/her but can`t live without him/her"... does this describe your current situation?. Trust your gut instinct. Do you have any doubts? - Could you spend the rest of your life without him if you had to? - if yes to either, he isn`t the one. On the other hand, Could you spend the rest of your life without him?- if no, he is!!! Q. I heard that often a period of separation is necessary before soulmates can be together... do you believe it has to do with working out karma? (not necessarily the karma between you and your soul mate?) A. Yes it is quite often neccessary for soulmates to undergo one or more periods of separation, it could be in life, or like Johnny and me separated by death. During these times different lessons are learned which are needed before you can continue onwards together. The term "Absense makes the heart grow fonder" comes to mind, as during these times the bond actually becomes stronger because you both realise how much you actually NEED each other... soulmates when together can`t possibly imagine getting any closer, but when separated it makes a big difference and the needing and longing become unbearable. Important lessons and life experience (and you could say Karma) are earned at this time which cannot be gained when together. Q. Being that you conversate with your soulmate regularly would you find it hard to start a relationship with someone else in this lifetime? Does Johnny ever get jealous or give you advice on relationships you may be considering? Sorry about so many questions but you have me intrigued. A. After Johnny died I didn`t want to know... I shut myself off from the world, only going to work or church and not wanting anything remotely to do with any other man. We were communicating regularly as we are now and he often told me he wanted me to be happy and if it meant marrying someone else he didn`t mind, it would only be for this lifetime!. It took 11 years before I even agreed to see anyone else. Then I met someone, although the all important "chemistry" that I only ever get with Johnny was missing, we went to see a medium together. Johnny came through and told me he had guided us to meet and that we would be married within a year. It made me cry, not because I was happy, but because I thought it meant he wanted to move on and I couldn`t bear the thought of being without him. Anyway, we were married within a year!. But I can`t possibly ever love my husband like I do Johnny... it`s impossible. Johnny is my heart soul & mind, past, present, future and all eternity and this love will never ever end. If he was to come to me now and tell me it`s time to join him I would have no hesitation, I would go...  so yes, I do find it difficult to relate to another... I have tried but it`s not possible! Does Johnny ever get jealous?. No, he doesn`t... he says it`s a waste of positive energy and encourages negativity. He also says he has no reason to be jealous, he knows as much as I do that we are eternal and will one day be together forever. However, he can sometimes get angry with my husband if he is playing up or does/says something Johnny and I don`t like or agree with. Don`t get me wrong, he is the sweetest gentlest and most loving of all souls you can ever meet... always was in life and remains so in spirit. He would never cause anyone, even my husband any real or intentional harm, (unless they deserve it - or as in his sporting persona when that was the whole point!)... but sometimes I almost feel sorry for my husband when I know he has upset or angered Johnny, and is at risk of a bit of a spiritual reminder that he has me on borrowed time and to behave "or else"!. (Johnny was in this life Wales`/Britain`s/Europe`s/Commonwealth`s (and as far as I`m concerned...The World`s) greatest ever champion boxer. Inside the ring Johnny was a mighty warrior, but he never ever took his fighting spirit out of the ring, outside he was kind and gentle. Mind you, if anyone messes with me, spiritual or physical, they know all about it when my hero comes to the rescue. I have seen a few people suddenly end up on their butt on the floor when they have gone too far in some way or other... and he has also spiritually taken control of me before now and helped me knock a burly 6ft 4" soldier onto his butt for offending me in public, lol! (He was my cousin who decided to have a quarrel in a crowded club. He thought it was funny to annoy me and make a scene in front of everyone. One second he was standing near me shouting abuse, the next second my arm suddenly swung into the air and he got a mighty upper cut under the chin. He ended up on his butt in the middle of the club!. I had no knowledge that was going to happen and totally no control, it just happened. I knew it had been Johnny, there is no way I could have done that but it was so funny even my cousin ended up laughing. He never tried to argue with me again, in public or anywhere else, lol!) Maybe that`s why I always feel so safe secure and positive with ouija! :-) Q. My family and I are being terrorised and haunted by an evil ghost in our house. Can you come and make it go away?  A. In a word, No. We are not being heartless and are indeed both very concerned for you and your family. However in circumstances like yours expert help is required. We are still not experienced enough to make sure the entity moves on completely, it would be foolish of us and dangerous for all concerned to try. Also, we do not do "Exorcism", which is forcing an unwilling entity to leave the Earth plane and move on to the spirit world, and that`s what you are talking about. We specialise in Spirit Rescue (Johnny calls it Soul Rescue) ... which is helping unfortunate souls who have become grounded in the Earth plane or lost in the Astral plane between what we call Earth and Heaven, usually through sudden, traumatic, accidental or unexpected death and through no fault of their own. These souls find us and ask for help, we do not force any spirits to move on, it has to be their wish. We urge you to please find or contact your nearest spiritualist church or centre and ask them to help you find someone who can help. Please do this as soon as possible but make sure the person helping is properly trained and fully experienced. In the meantime, please try and keep calm and grounded, don`t allow the entity the satisfaction of knowing it is causing distress, it will only feed on the negative energy and get stronger. Light white candles and pray for divine assistance, ask your guardian angels to protect you, fill the house with flowers and play happy music, sing along if you like and fill the house with as much happiness and love as you can. This alone might make the entity move on by itself as these sort hate love and happiness!. You could try burning incense or smuding sticks and asking for negative energy to be replaced with positive energy whilst you do so. We will also pray for your family and ask for divine assistance and positive energy for you, but we strongly urge you to seek expert help as a matter of urgency. We are sorry we can`t help personally and wish you the best of luck. Q. Karen (Rainbow) do you realise Johnny (Spectrum) could just be a bad entity playing with you and tricking you, and not who you think he is at all?... you use Ouija and that is the usual outcome! A. Yes, I do know this is possible, but is not the case. Firstly I must point out that I only call it Ouija... it`s easier for me, but Johnny says it is actually Glass Divination, and your question is the reason why he prefers to use the correct terminology!. Johnny did warn me that by saying we use Ouija, it might cause people to assume he is a bad or "low" entity and that we are dabbling in the dark side...which is total nonsense!. He is exactly who he says he is, my soulmate/twinflame, protector, main guide, counsellor, partner, confidante, coach, teacher, companion, lover and best friend... he is my eternal one and only!. I have seen him in spirit, and met him in meditation and astral travel, he is the same soul I fell in love with when he was alive, he has the same energy and "chemistry", and the same beautiful knockout angel eyes he had before he crossed over. He has the same personality, manerisms, charm, charisma, voice and talking manner, the same gorgeous cheeky grin and sparkle in his eyes that I have ever known Johnny to have. He knows everything about Johnny, his family, his hometown, his country, and me... A bad or low entity or imposter cannot fake all that, it is not possible. Also a bad or low entity would not make me feel at ease, comfortable, safe, secure, contented, loved and protected. I am very good with my instincts and I would know if he wasn`t really Johnny... after all Johnny is the other half of my soul, and I would know if he was an imposter!. A bad or low entity would NOT insist on prayer and protection, would not talk of Love, Angels, God, Jesus, and Heaven. He would not be concerned about my welfare, health, wellbeing or spirituality. He would not be interested in, let alone capable of performing actual miracles for me, helping me when I need it, aiding and comforting me when I need it, or providing for me and my family... he would only be interested in what he can get from me and not be in the slightest bothered about me, my family or what he can do for me!. He would not stand by me at all times, regardless of circumstances, and would probably have abandoned me long ago, especially during difficult times and times when I was unable to connect with him and he must have felt very sad and lonely... if he hadn`t been Johnny, my soulmate/twinflame, then he probably would have given up on me before now. He is exactly who he says he is, he has proven this many times without me even having to ask him to, he is the same soul who is half of my soul and who was in his latest Earth life, Johnny Owen, the greatest Boxer of all time, ever, anywhere :-). I do thank you for your question and concerns, but in our case all is well... :-) I sometimes have questions for Johnny / Spectrum that I feel only he can answer for me to understand properly. Sometimes I feel it`s an important question on something that others might also be wondering. So I will add them here... Q. You have been showing me "us" in past lives, we have visited "ourselves" and watched as "we" went about our business. We were different except as we know, we always have the same eyes and "vibes" or "energy". You have been teaching me about two past lives in particular and you have also "spoken" to me as "Paul" on the Ouija, not Johnny or Spectrum. Can you please tell me what happens to our past personalities when we come into a new life, and can we "separate" each personality to learn about them without "changing" who we are now"? A. Each time we incarnate into a new life, we bring with us all our past personalities and they make up our new one. Each life carries certain lessons and learning which we use in the next one. Think of each personality as being something like a brick. On it`s own it`s a brick, put it together and build a wall... this is how we connect each past personality into a new one, like a spiritual "wall". Yet each personality, like each brick, is still an individual in it`s own right, just part of something bigger- and each can be separated in order to learn, without the wall crashing down."   MORE SOON Or If you have any questions please feel free to contact us. We will do our best to answer, or endeavour to find someone who can :-) You can email us at rainbow @ karenskreations . co . uk  or  spectrum @ karenskreations . co . uk (remove all gaps, we have included them to prevent automated spam!) Use your "Back" button to return to previous location Or If you didn`t come here from Realm of Rainbows and want to go there now CLICK HERE